Friday, April 29, 2005
Bangable?
Girl 1: "She is so hot!"
Girl 2: "Yeah, I want to bang her!"
Guy: "Huh?"
What does that mean? I asked T-Bone today, "What exactly does it mean when a girl says 'I want to bang her,' like, what does that girl have in mind?" T-Bone was mostly ambiguous but eventually explained that the difference comes down to "to fuck" and "to make sweet sweet love." To fuck is to have a lusty experience sans feelings, and the latter is to have a lusty experience with feelings.
My question only slightly clarified, I still wondered what a lusty experience would entail for lesbians. The word bang, to me, implies a quicky, but obviously, women do not have penises. An orgasm would have to be induced using fingers, tongues, dildos, etc. All of which do not seem to fall under the category of bang. The experience itself would evolve into one with feelings simply due to the lengthiness and concentration involved. Can girls really go have a quicky in the closet? What do they whip out?
Girl 2: "Yeah, I want to bang her!"
Guy: "Huh?"
What does that mean? I asked T-Bone today, "What exactly does it mean when a girl says 'I want to bang her,' like, what does that girl have in mind?" T-Bone was mostly ambiguous but eventually explained that the difference comes down to "to fuck" and "to make sweet sweet love." To fuck is to have a lusty experience sans feelings, and the latter is to have a lusty experience with feelings.
My question only slightly clarified, I still wondered what a lusty experience would entail for lesbians. The word bang, to me, implies a quicky, but obviously, women do not have penises. An orgasm would have to be induced using fingers, tongues, dildos, etc. All of which do not seem to fall under the category of bang. The experience itself would evolve into one with feelings simply due to the lengthiness and concentration involved. Can girls really go have a quicky in the closet? What do they whip out?
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Of course girls can have a quicky, and they needn't whip out anything unless they're wearing mittens and need to whip out their hands. Lesbians get really good at fingering other chicks--or at least, they'd better, if they want to get laid.
And it definitely doesn't have to involve feelings. It's just... fun. There's an entire character on The L Word who spends her time picking up random chicks, fucking them, and abandoning them, much to the chicks' chagrin. Last season, she claimed to have fucked somewhere in the thousands of women in her 25 years. So, that'd be a lot of emotional connection.
But you speaketh true that lesbians are more likely to be really into commitment. That might have some relationship to the whole "it takes a long time to get a chick off" thing, or it might be a "women are more into commitment in general, so getting two of them together and here come the brides" thing.
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And it definitely doesn't have to involve feelings. It's just... fun. There's an entire character on The L Word who spends her time picking up random chicks, fucking them, and abandoning them, much to the chicks' chagrin. Last season, she claimed to have fucked somewhere in the thousands of women in her 25 years. So, that'd be a lot of emotional connection.
But you speaketh true that lesbians are more likely to be really into commitment. That might have some relationship to the whole "it takes a long time to get a chick off" thing, or it might be a "women are more into commitment in general, so getting two of them together and here come the brides" thing.
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